An optimist views a glass as half-full.

A pessimist sees a glass as half-empty.

A realist realizes the glass needs to be washed.

We view life through glasses that affect our vision. Perspective informs experience, and perception becomes reality. We see what we seek.

Friends snicker at the thought, but I began life as a wild-eyed optimist. Then life happened. These days I am a recovering pessimist who realistically aspires for more.

Therefore, I chose GRATITUDE as my 2025 Star Word. An attitude of gratitude practices three disciplines:

• Recognize the gifts
• Recognize the Giver
• Give thanks

I begin each day with The Lord’s Prayer. Then I list five blessings in life. I recognize that God is the author of every good and perfect gift. I conclude by saying, “Thank you.”

A gratitude attitude transforms how we see the world; but I am still enough of a realist to realize that someone needs to wash the glass.